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Apr 12
http://live4it20.tumblr.com/post/82414354235/everything-will-be-okay-everything-will-be-okay

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Apr 12

The Immortal Dreamer: Self-Help Diary #1

the-immortal-dreamer:

"Some of us have to grow up sometimes" - GROW UP, Paramore

Face things with maturity. Remember you’re too old to go crying over nothing. What was done was done and you cannot change it. Learn how to deal with the past and FORGIVE YOURSELF for your mistakes. Then get up, go ahead and Grow Up.


4
Apr 12

The Immortal Dreamer: Self-Help Diary #1

the-immortal-dreamer:

"Some of us have to grow up sometimes" - GROW UP, Paramore

Face things with maturity. Remember you’re too old to go crying over nothing. What was done was done and you cannot change it. Learn how to deal with the past and FORGIVE YOURSELF for your mistakes. Then get up, go ahead and Grow Up.


1
Mar 06

wordsdotkyle:

I didn’t like the memories the movie evoked. Deeply personal and hidden. Somehow Joaquin Phoenix’s character resonates something that I might have experienced before.

The main character, Theodore writes personalized letters for people who couldn’t express themselves passionately and having recently broken up his wife, he often finds himself alone with his thoughts. 

He decides to try a new operating system from the eye-catching advertising that turns out to be much more than a simple electronic device. Samantha, as it is called, grows with experience and is able to have feelings without having much to simulate. As their relationship, and later romance, develops, we go through the typical love story arcs of the honeymoon phase, boredom, and jealousy, but always with this unique narrative element of love between man and machine.

Spike Jonze is one of those guys that is able to create scripts that is deep, well-structured and emotional, but still able to share them with the public in the best way. 

The film is the epitome of generation in its most real way. It’s hipster yet seemingly possible future for us. The idea that a man could fall in love with an artificially intelligent operating system possible and real. It takes away the insecurity and stigma associated with our generations connection to the internet and technology. It makes that connection real. 

It shows the comfort and solace we are able to find in that connection. “We are only here briefly, and in this moment I want to allow myself joy.” And so if joy is falling in love with an operating system, allow it to be. That joy might be a selfie. That joy might be a hashtag. That joy might be a status update. That joy might be connecting through someone on a social media platform. The whole point is that we aren’t emotionally void, narcissistic, entitled and selfish. 


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Dec 25

31048
Dec 01
This year is tough for me, with lots of stuff going on and i become this emotional blackhole that is not easy to deal with.

I was seeking someone to save me when the only one that can me is myself.

You began to think what is the meaning of a friend.

You’re reminded of everything that a friend truly is, and the ease with which you can share everything and catch up, with which you can make each other laugh and fundamentally understand is almost unsettling. 

Have you forgotten that, at one point in your life, you only made time for the people with whom you shared absolutely everything? 

That the idea of making social engagements with people you know out of necessity would be absurd? 

It’s as though you’ve forgotten what a friend itself really is, how wonderful it feels and it can be of all that we love about life.

I would to thank the ones who stayed, the ones who helped me through this treacherous times, whether its constant advice, an ear to hear or just a simple call.

Sometimes we don’t thank our friends enough, for being there, for loving us, for being able to exist in the sidelines because of distance or schedules but come back into our lives with full force when the opportunity arrives. 

I would like to thank the following people (in a non chronological order)

Anfaal, for the listening to me about my issues and constant advice on anxiety despite on a busy schedule

Sean and Jens, for the daily ride to office, lunch and occasional dinner partners and listening to me bitch about office stuff. Jens, your happy go lucky and occasional uncle attitude never ceased to amaze me hahaha

Ong KH, your weekly friday calls just to talk about life and stuff.

Joanne and Qinyu, companions to talk about art business stuff when i have decided to make it all by myself

Ruby, saturday movie buddy when i dont have anyone to go out with

KK, companionship although your neediness for love sometimes is sometimes unbearable haha

Ambie for business and continued partnership. Lets build this thing togetherrr

Charlene, for everyday ramblings about work hahah. keeps me company when i feel like ranting about random stuff about life

Ben, for the past support and guidance

GD gang, for the occasional meetings 

Leavingsocialites, for still staying in touch after most of us parted ways


Life is busy. People are busy. Some are actually busy – and others say they’re busy just because they don’t feel like hanging out with you. And when you figure out the difference, you’ll have a better idea of who your real friends are. 

The ones that stick around – the ones you can go without seeing for months and have everything be the same when you do – are the ones that count.

I wish one day I could read back this post when I have sorted things out and be successful as fuck and think back of all the things that i do to get through those stormy times.

And I wish that moment would come soon.

This year is tough for me, with lots of stuff going on and i become this emotional blackhole that is not easy to deal with.

I was seeking someone to save me when the only one that can me is myself.

You began to think what is the meaning of a friend.

You’re reminded of everything that a friend truly is, and the ease with which you can share everything and catch up, with which you can make each other laugh and fundamentally understand is almost unsettling. 

Have you forgotten that, at one point in your life, you only made time for the people with whom you shared absolutely everything? 

That the idea of making social engagements with people you know out of necessity would be absurd? 

It’s as though you’ve forgotten what a friend itself really is, how wonderful it feels and it can be of all that we love about life.

I would to thank the ones who stayed, the ones who helped me through this treacherous times, whether its constant advice, an ear to hear or just a simple call.

Sometimes we don’t thank our friends enough, for being there, for loving us, for being able to exist in the sidelines because of distance or schedules but come back into our lives with full force when the opportunity arrives. 

I would like to thank the following people (in a non chronological order)

Anfaal, for the listening to me about my issues and constant advice on anxiety despite on a busy schedule

Sean and Jens, for the daily ride to office, lunch and occasional dinner partners and listening to me bitch about office stuff. Jens, your happy go lucky and occasional uncle attitude never ceased to amaze me hahaha

Ong KH, your weekly friday calls just to talk about life and stuff.

Joanne and Qinyu, companions to talk about art business stuff when i have decided to make it all by myself

Ruby, saturday movie buddy when i dont have anyone to go out with

KK, companionship although your neediness for love sometimes is sometimes unbearable haha

Ambie for business and continued partnership. Lets build this thing togetherrr

Charlene, for everyday ramblings about work hahah. keeps me company when i feel like ranting about random stuff about life

Ben, for the past support and guidance

GD gang, for the occasional meetings 

Leavingsocialites, for still staying in touch after most of us parted ways

Life is busy. People are busy. Some are actually busy – and others say they’re busy just because they don’t feel like hanging out with you. And when you figure out the difference, you’ll have a better idea of who your real friends are. 

The ones that stick around – the ones you can go without seeing for months and have everything be the same when you do – are the ones that count.

I wish one day I could read back this post when I have sorted things out and be successful as fuck and think back of all the things that i do to get through those stormy times.

And I wish that moment would come soon.


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Nov 20

474
Nov 11

2239
Oct 11

20 Important Questions to Ask Yourself

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. Who am I?

2. What is really important to me/ what are my values?

3. What are my passions?

5. What am I most proud of?

6. Who and what am I truly grateful for?

7. What 5 adjectives describe me best?

8. Do I love myself (and why, or why not)?

9. Do I love other people – in a way that is meaningful to them?

10. What would my ideal self look like? (How would they be living; what would they be thinking, saying and doing?)

11. What are the most important lessons I’ve learned so far?

12. Who can I trust (and who should I NOT trust)?

13. What do I want my life to look like a year, 5 years and 10 years from now?

14. What do I need to do to make that a reality?

15. What are my goals and dreams?

16. What steps do I need to take, what obstacles do I need to overcome, what bad habits do I need to break, and what commitments do I need to make in order to realise those goals and dreams?

17. What am I running away from?

18.  What do I need to work on to be the best person I can be?

19. What gives my life meaning and purpose?

20. Which 5 people do I want to spend most time with?


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Oct 04